Secret of coming out of life dissatisfaction
Dissatisfaction is relative.
You will come to know of what
is 'life satisfaction' all about, when you actually go through dissatisfaction phase in life. You will realise the importance of coming out
of this dissatisfaction phase. The sooner- the better.
How it affects your normal life?
When you feel dissatisfied with your life, you won't feel to do
any more effort. You may feel nothing whatsoever seem to work. you find no meaning in anything happening around.
STOP then and there with a red
signal.
Then do the below steps.
1. Accept it . Accept anything bad
life is offering you if you think there is no solution to the
problem. Afterall life is not created by yourself alone. You are not
the creator of even you own physical self. You have only limited
knowledge of what, why, when, and how things are happening in this
world and to yourself.
2. Understand that this is a temporary
phase. No one can escape this phase though it is a temporary
period. These are designed in this way and it is a part of life. This
will aid to obtain certain positive results. Take few past examples
from your own life to convince yourself of this theory of temporary
nature of events.
3. Dont waste this phase and make full use
of it.
Think of the advantages this period can give to you and make full
use of it. eg: If you are fired from job, think of the free time you
get to improve your fitness and physical health and learning a new
skill. Think of construction of your home which you were postponing
for years due to want of time. Pamper yourself in Spa. Make new
friends. Write an article or poem or paint whatever coming to your
mind. Learn Belly Dance steps if you are a gal. Be interested in
Outdoor sports. Do computer games. Read a romantic story book. See a
funny film. Gift yourself a holiday or buy a new car. Get married or
plan for future. Try another job. Try to get satisfaction from other
things in life.
4. Hope for the future
Be very ambitious and design your own desire, dreams and hope for
the future. Don't allow this phase to disappoint you a bit. Dont
waste a second brooding over it. Think that you are fighting and
going to win this battle.
5. Emerge as a winner
After performing the above steps, look at yourself in the mirror. You will be
surprised to see yourself as the most successful being even during
most difficult and adverse of times. You will be much more confident
now to realise that you can handle any terrible situations or events
life can offer. You emerge a winner! Pat yourself at your back.